Strictly Come Dancing Star Dies Aged 46 as Shirley Ballas Pays Tribute to ‘Dear Friend’
Remembering Michael Wentink: A True Legend of Strictly Come Dancing
The world of dance and entertainment has been deeply saddened by the news of Michael Wentink’s untimely passing at the age of 46. Known for his incredible talent and warm personality, Michael was a beloved figure on Strictly Come Dancing, where he captivated audiences with his passion and skill. His death has left a void in the dance community, prompting heartfelt tributes from fellow dancers, fans, and especially Shirley Ballas, the head judge of Strictly Come Dancing.
Shirley Ballas, who shared a close friendship with Michael, took to social media to express her grief and celebrate the life of her “dear friend.” Her tribute highlighted not only Michael’s professional achievements but also the kindness and joy he brought to those around him. Shirley’s words paint a picture of a man who was more than just a dancer — he was family to many.
Shirley Ballas’ Heartfelt Tribute to Michael Wentink
In a moving Instagram post, Shirley Ballas shared a collection of photos and videos showcasing moments from Michael’s life and career. She wrote:
“Michael wasn’t just part of my life, he was like family. He wasn’t just an incredible dancer, he was a kind, caring soul who brought so much joy, warmth, and laughter into our lives. His loyalty and love were unmatched, and his smile was irreplaceable.”
Shirley reminisced about the times Michael spent at her home, his affection for her children, and his constant check-ins, demonstrating the deep personal bond they shared. She recalled a memorable day when she suggested Michael wear an aqua suit for a performance, a moment that symbolized their friendship and teamwork.
“I’ll never forget suggesting this aqua suit to Michael, and he just laughed saying, ‘Let’s give it a go, Shirls.’ @alanate11 did hair and as a team we all pulled it together so very beautifully. They danced magnificently and won. That’s a day I’ll carry with me forever.”
Her tribute ended with a poignant farewell: “You touched so many lives, Michael, and I’m blessed to have been one of them. With a heavy heart, I’ll miss you deeply. Rest in peace, my friend, alongside your beautiful Beata. Forever in our hearts.”
The Impact of Michael Wentink’s Passing on the Dance Community
Michael Wentink’s death was confirmed by his dance partner and close friend, Ralf Lepehne, who shared a touching message on social media. Ralf revealed that Michael had been quietly battling depression, describing his courage in facing the relentless weight of his struggles.
“His passing is a painful reminder that the brightest lights often cast the deepest shadows,” Ralf wrote. He emphasized how Michael’s spirit, laughter, and passion for dance would continue to inspire those who knew him.
The loss of Michael Wentink has sparked an outpouring of grief and support across the Strictly Come Dancing community and beyond. Fans and colleagues alike have expressed their condolences, remembering Michael not only for his extraordinary talent but also for his warmth and kindness.
Supporting Mental Health Awareness in the Wake of Tragedy

Michael Wentink’s story is a solemn reminder of the importance of mental health awareness. His battle with depression, which he faced with quiet strength, highlights the challenges many individuals endure behind the scenes. If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health issues, it is crucial to seek help.
Organizations such as Samaritans offer 24-hour support every day of the year. You can reach them by calling 116 123 or visiting their website at https://www.samaritans.org/. Remember, no one has to face their struggles alone.
Conclusion
The passing of Strictly Come Dancing star Michael Wentink at just 46 years old is a heartbreaking loss to the dance world and all who knew him. Shirley Ballas’ touching tribute reminds us of the profound impact Michael had as both a performer and a friend. As we honor his memory, let us also raise awareness about mental health and support those in need.
If you were moved by Michael’s story or know someone who might be struggling, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. Together, we can keep his spirit alive by fostering kindness, understanding, and compassion within our communities.
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